Having friends who are girls, is it ok?
I used to be one of the best story writers when I was in my school and college days ( Sarcastic ) . I might have been the only person who wrote huge stories in my college physics paper. I know I made life bad for the people who correct my paper but that is me and they need to bear with me. I never used my story writing skills in my blog I always wanted to but I never gave my time for it. Saying I don’t have time is unfair. You give time for something you want to do and I was just lazy to write my blog.
Today I want to write something. Let me start with friends who are girls. Is it wrong having girl friends? If anyone says its wrong they are just stupid and never fit to live in this world. Girls are god’s greatest creation. A man does not come into this world without women. Same way every man needs woman to live in this world. If you take friendship with girls the right way they can become the biggest asset of your life. Girls can mend your life in many ways they can become building block of your life. There are situations a girl becomes a disaster in a guy’s life but I say that is simple stupidity.
If you are positive no girl will become a disaster even if they leave you for some reason still they will become an indirect inspiration. Girl friends help you mentally, emotionally and lot of ways you can think of. If you have the experience you will agree with me, you will feel happier talking to a girl than a guy. Whether it’s your personal experiences or grievances or anything you want to share to a friend you will be more than happy to share to a girl than a boy. When I was in my school I used to spend hours on phone with my friends most of the time we don’t share anything useful but just basic chit chat. But it looks like you used your time preciously. I feel my parents made a mistake by making me study in a boys only school and boys only college. I would have faired better in a co-ed school or college definitely. I am that kind of guy who likes to study or try to prove among opposite sex.
In my all my personal experiences girls have always played constructive part. In no situation I can blame a girl for playing something negative in my life. It never happened. If you like a company of a girl you need to make sure the girl likes your company too. If she doesn’t like you move on there are too many girls in this world. Most of the girls are very simple when it comes to friendliness. They don’t care whether you are fat or thin, fair or dark nothing they care if you know how to be a friend to them. One other recommendation from my experience is make friends who are your style or at least adapt to your style. If you can’t move along as friends make sure you don’t move it further.
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